In Canada, there are 4-5 million home caregivers now and they provide over 80% care needed, especially for long term care. With the quickly increasing aging population, home caregivers will take more and more important role in health system. Caring what caregivers’ need and caring their health are apparently increased now and near future. Social media will be an excellent platform for caregivers to provide information, support, and communication. How to fully extent social media’s potential will be challenge and I have summarized few strategies, which may help ACGA generating more discussion,
I. During last four months, there are 12 people/organization (Not belonging to ACGA) involved in discussion or new topics on Facebook. The fact that few people involved in the interaction of Facebook makes me wonder how many caregivers really know the facebook, considering the majority caregivers are aging people who may not familiar with techniques.
Suggestion: Collaborate with other staffs or services provided in ACGA: like caregivers’ advisor; COMPASS workshops; community caregiver group. By simply showing caregivers how to link to social media from ACAG website before/after a workshop presentation or caregiver’s counseling or a group caregivers’ discussion, it will be an easy way to advertise our social service and let caregivers know more available channel for them.
II. I mimic the caregivers schedule and go to Internet around mid-night. I am tired and easy ways to catch my attention are videos, even just caregivers’ own story, which may make them feel they are not alone. I searched some videos related with caregivers and put them into different category as following:
1. Focus on yourself, caregivers
1). Being a caregiver is challenging. Sometimes it is hard to say “I can not do it any more,” but actually it could be healthy response and getting some supports could make you do it longer. Please see video Caregiving:
Habbits2have
2). A lot of caregivers feels guilty, “I should be there when my Mom is fall.” But being memorized that there are two life involved: You and people who you are cared for. Don’t blame yourself simply because you cannot do everything. Please listen Scott sharing Tips & Treasures on how to be a better caregiver without losing sanity, health and identity.
Focus on yourself, caregivers
2. How to avoid caregivers’ burnout:
1). Some physical and emotional signs may indicate that you are overstress as caregivers. Have you ever wonder if I am overstress, please see the video,
recognize the sign of stress for caregivers
2). Family caregivers who provide over thirty six hours care per week have six time higher chance to have depression than non-caregivers! Anger, anxiety, sadness, isolation, exhaustion and guilty feeling can drain the most capable person. Please see the video
Caregiver depression: symptoms of depression and ways to copy it.
3). If you are not taking care yourself, you will not able to take care your loved one. Please listen some tips about
How to de-stress from giving care
III. I found on social media, the more detail information provided, the more easily to get audience involving in the discussion. I found some useful information about how to communicate your needs as caregivers and the importance of protecting your health, especially emotional depression as following.
1. How to communicate the needs
1). Asking for help may be difficult or even seem embarrassing, but you may discover that friends and family are not only willing, but also eager to help. And remember, asking for help means less stress for you, which almost always means you'll be a better family caregiver. Please check
Net of Care provides some tips about how to ask for help.
2). National Family Caregivers Association also provides information about
Reach out for help. Including the topics: identifying the help you need; delegate tasks; don’t forget emotional help; don’t feel guilty.
2. Protect your health
1).
“One of my daughter’s physicians told me, ‘The worst thing that can happen to your daughter is not her health problems; the worst thing that can happen to your daughter is not having you to care for her.’ This confirmed and encouraged my attitude as a caregiver that my well-being is my daughter’s well-being.” —Linda Reid, Oneonta, AL Please read more about:
The best present you can give your loved one: your own good health
2). Family caregivers have much high chance of suffering from depression than the rest of the population. Depression will not only affect the quality service you provided to patients, it can also seriously affect your own life. Please see the information provided by
National Family Caregivers Association about caregiver depression symptom and hope. It include the topics: Major depression-what it is and what it is not; how to screen yourself for depression; how you can cope with depression; caregiving and how to manage stress; et al.
Most suggestions have been posted in Facebook of ACGA, and more details please check
ACGA's Facebook.